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  • Divyanshi Trakroo

Gossip 101: Lessons from Gossip Girl & Bridgerton for College Life



Dear Readers,


Word is that there are similarities between the realm of academia and high society after all. In the complex web of interactions and relationships, gossip finds its way through the glittering ballrooms and the bustling corridors of college. It is a perfect blend and interplay of whispers and secrets, which results in betrayal, ambition and fascination. These two might seem to be highly unrelated, yet they are tied together by this thin thread known as gossip. Imagine a society where every whisper behind a closed door and tales of a secret romance are broadcast to an impatient audience. Similar is the junction between the theatrical world of the TV shows Bridgerton and Gossip Girl and the popularity of gossip prevalent in college. The social life of college students is fuelled by gossip. Students interact, negotiate and create or ruin reputations through more than just 'idle speech'. Within university halls, rumours circulate as easily as a cup of morning coffee, creating a complex web of relationships and conflicts. With the advent of building technology, notorious anonymous confession pages for the sake of easy gossiping are no strangers to us. Rumours wield considerable influence on a student's life. Gossip may be detrimental to one’s reputation and result in bullying, tension and anxiety. Conversely, maintaining a sense of community and enduring connections can be fostered through sharing secrets. Worry and interest are two sides of the same coin when it comes to rumours.

 

Gossip Girl, set in the affluent Upper East Side of Manhattan, New York, captures the drama of a bunch of high-society teens. Every action is monitored and every secret becomes material for the ubiquitous blogger 'Gossip Girl'. Social surveillance is a very common element in the lives of the primary protagonists, such as Blair Waldorf, Dan Humphrey and Serena van der Woodsen, amongst others. Gossip is used as a tool of manipulation and social climbing. One mistake might result in loss of favour in this world where notoriety and declining popularity are only a post away. Dan’s transition from an outsider to an insider, Blair’s cunning social skills and Serena’s scandalous past are all important themes that are fuelled by gossip. Rumours and disclosures follow every character, weaving a rich narrative. Gossip Girl presents an abundance of public, where reputations are brittle and social media is powerful. The enormous stakes of constantly being watched by an unseen, omnipresent judge are fantastically depicted in the show.

 

In the lavish realm of Regency-era London, Bridgerton plays out with just the right amount of sophistication and mystery. With Lady Whistledown’s scandalous newsletter serving as a record of every transgression, the show revolves around the Bridgerton family and how they handle the social season of marriage and matchmaking. This season is heavily dependent on gossip and serves as its lifeblood. While Lady Whistledown is an anonymous writer who exposes tons of hidden scandals, the luxurious ballrooms and lush gardens are ready for public unveilings. Managing one’s reputation turns into a high-stakes game in which a single rumour can lead to social advancement or downfall. Rumours surrounding Lady Whistledown’s identity, the financial difficulties faced by the Featherington family and several romantic tropes thus form major plots. Each is interwoven with strands of mystery and controversy to provide an engrossing tale. The influence of social pressures and the strength of anonymity are titled as the main themes of the show. With her ability to influence lives, Lady Whistledown’s writing captures the effect of gossip and cunning social manipulation in society.

 

The dramatic representation of gossip in Gossip Girl and Bridgerton bears a remarkable resemblance to college chatter. Anonymity and secrecy are essential in these situations. Those who wish to dominate the narrative use gossip as a tool for power and social navigation. However, these shows provide a strong and frequently exaggerated picture of gossip because of the increased drama and stakes. Dramatic endings are frequently provided in fictional stories, although they are less frequent in real life. There might be severe repercussions from campus gossip. Most cases have less dramatic and more intricate endings. Continuous criticism can damage one's mental and emotional well-being by causing tension and anxiety. The emotional toll that being the target of rumours has on characters in Gossip Girl and Bridgerton mirrors the difficulties that people who are the target of gossip actually encounter. College gossip can foster close-knit communities bonded by mutual secrets, but it can also result in the exclusion of those who are the target of unfavourable rumours. The exchange of information and the social dynamics that it generates have an impact on the cultural norms and behaviours inside these groups. These shows emphasise these impacts, demonstrating how gossip can change people's lives and establish societal norms. Because they can dramatise these everyday situations and make the stakes seem both spectacular and relatable, these shows are appealing.

 

Real-world repercussions result from college gossip. It can seriously harm one's mental health, destroy friendships and damage one's reputation. Gossiping in the university halls and hostels is much more serious than gossip from the luxurious settings of Gossip Girl and Bridgerton, even though it frequently lacks dramatic flair. The culture of gossip is still very much alive and well, fuelled by social media and human curiosity about other people's lives. A vital part of human interaction, gossip will always exist, whether in the privileged circles of Gossip Girl, the ballrooms of Bridgerton, or the everyday lives of college students. It serves as a social media platform, a means of facilitating interpersonal conversation and a roadmap through the complex network of interpersonal connections. This essence is beautifully depicted in the television shows Gossip Girl and Bridgerton, where the major plot mechanism is gossip, which advances the respective stories. They serve as a reminder that, despite possible differences in the context and stakes, gossip is still gossip. Scandal and intrigue resonate through the sacred halls of elite academia and the lavish ballrooms of Regency London, creating a tapestry of human drama as complex and enthralling as any masterpiece.

 

There is Serena van der Woodsen, the phantom goddess of Manhattan's Upper East Side, dancing on the edge of fame, every step being watched through a sharp eye. But you are never too far from the charming streets of London, where Daphne Bridgerton responds to Lady Whistledown's stormy musings with grace. With just a few strokes of her pen, she has the ability to elevate or demolish the entire foundation of affluent society. We are drawn into these stories by their charm, where secrets lie buried in the hearts of the seemingly upright and betrayal lurks in the shadows. In the turbulent dance between truth and deceit, we see our own ambitions and fears reflected in the sparkling surface of scandal, exposed to the merciless glare of gossip. So, let us listen to the wind's whispers and the crowd's murmurs as we navigate this dangerous terrain of human connection, dear readers. We find the essence of our common humanity in the symphony of scandal, connected by the enduring thread of intrigue and illuminated by the brilliant light of revelation. Embrace the chaos of gossip, for inside its turbulence lies life itself, a kaleidoscope of desire, ambition and passion, constantly linked to the complex dance of life.

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~By Divyanshi Trakroo

(Junior Editor)

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